sticks and stones . . .

The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.

– Proverbs 12:18

“Sticks and stone may break my bones but words can never hurt me.”

I was taught that verse as a child.

There is nothing farther from the truth.

It is bullying, emotional abuse, and it leave wounds that run deep and scars that sometimes never heal.

In today’s world, it seems that everyone is out for a quick laugh, resulting in social media posts and embarrassing scenarios that never go away.

We are supposed to use our words wisely, to heal, not to hurt.

How do we do that?

Start by realizing what it is you are looking for.

Instead of looking for the inconsistencies in other people’s lives, start to notice the strengths.

When what we notice is turned into words, we can encourage others in ways that few people do.

An occasional jab is fun, but we should strive to be known more for the way we build others up instead of tearing them down.

Have a blessed day!