Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.
- James 1:19 (NLT)
Not that I would ever admit this, but I have a very quick temper.
It is not something I am proud of, but sometimes I feel myself going from zero to angry in 2.5 seconds.
My husband tells me that I do not have a good poker face, (he’s absolutely correct) so when I am mad, you can tell.
Being slow to speak does not mean the way you speak; it means how quickly.
Your reaction to a situation can make or break your reputation, and that reputation can sometimes cost you - a raise or promotion that was in your grasp can be quickly ripped away if you react poorly.
Listen.
Consider.
It’s good to remember that “listen” and “silent” are made of the same six letters.
These words of advice will serve those who practice them well – unfortunately, it is rare that I am one of those.
Our tendencies are to listen with the intent of speaking our mind as quickly as possible, but the art of listening can bridge the gap of many misunderstandings.
Seek first to understand, then to be understood, and you will do well in the affairs of life.
Oh – and note to self: keep that temper in check.
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